A Reddit user was criticized last week after appearing to insult his stepdaughter for the way she looked at her ‘surprise’ wedding.
The angry stepfather posted an article about the incident on the Reddit “Am I the A – h -” forum.
According to the user, who has since deleted his account, his son and daughter-in-law got married eight months ago but did not notify anyone in advance that their ceremony was taking place.
Instead, the bride and groom invited everyone to attend a cocktail party, where the couple finally said “I want it”.
The groom’s father explained that his wife unwittingly wore white at the event. In the United States, wedding guests generally tend to avoid wearing white so as not to distract from the bride.
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According to the Redditor, his wife often wears white, so the newlyweds should have known to warn them that it was a wedding. Instead, the bride reportedly blamed her stepmother for the fashion faux pas.
“For eight months she’s been trying to spin it around so my wife looks like a crazy MIL [mother-in-law] who showed up in a wedding dress, ”the man wrote. “She had a wedding photo on social media and when someone commented who was wearing white she said ‘this is my stepmom, she doesn’t like me’ and a laughing emoji. ”
“My wife called her about it and she played the victim and complained that my wife was trying to outdo her,” the man added. “She made a few sarcastic comments and told people who weren’t at the wedding that it was intentional.”
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Apparently, the groom finally spoke to his father about the situation, explaining that the bride was injured after her own mother and best friend commented on how “gorgeous” her stepmother was, before saying anything. either on the bride herself at the wedding photos, the Redditor said.
“My wife used to model and not be an a-, but she gets your attention a lot more than DIL [daughter-in-law]The man wrote.
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Her son also told her that the bride “is not safe and has always felt insecure” with her stepmother.
“I don’t care,” the man wrote. “I have a 15 year old daughter so I certainly find this woman struggling with body issues, but you can’t take this on someone else and spread lies.
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Eventually, the man couldn’t take it anymore after the bride said the photo was “proof that she was innocent in the relationship.”
“I told her that I was sick of hearing about the white dress and that if she had put more effort into her own appearance she would have been a beautiful bride and people would not look at her,” he said. writes the man. . “She’s gone and my son is crazy. He actually said his mom has high self esteem (which she doesn’t have) so we should take the high road.
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Regardless of the series of events that led to his insult, other Redditors criticized the man’s explosion – though they also admitted his stepdaughter was wrong as well.
“Insulting his appearance was unnecessary,” commented one person. “If you would have said, ‘Shut up about the white dress, you know she only wore this because you told us it was a regular party and not a wedding, and I’m sick of it. Hear you lie about it, ‘you’ to be NTA [Not the A–h—] in my book. ”
Another person agreed: “Exactly. You can defend your wife without being an a – h -. You also can’t have a surprise wedding and then be convinced that people weren’t dressed for a wedding.
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