Most people get divorced in the hope of keeping it amicable, but very rarely the separation of two lives is nice. When Kristin Cavallari first announced that she was separating from her husband, Jay Cutler, she pretended that it was a mutual decision and that there was no hard feelings. Now, as more information is released, it is clear that there is more to the story than fans originally thought.
After more than a decade together, Cavallari and Cutler have decided to end their relationship.
“With great sadness, after 10 years together, we have come to a conclusion of love for divorce,” Cavallari wrote on his Instagram. “We have only love and respect for each other and are deeply grateful for the shared years, the memories created and the children we are so proud of. This is just the situation of two people who separate. We ask everyone to respect our privacy as we go through this difficult time in our family. “
But things were supposed to be very friendly to each other. They even went on vacation to the Bahamas together after they decided to separate.
“On their recent trip, they already knew they were parting,” a source told People. “The reason they’ve announced it now is because it’s a quiet time for them to work through it all and try to move forward. “
Divorces tend to get messy when it comes to children. Cavallari is currently requesting sole custody of his children with visiting rights for Cutler.
In documents obtained by HollywoodLife, she “denies that the husband has always been the parent available at home and the main guardian of the parties’ minor children. The wife would show that she was the primary residential parent and that she is a suitable and suitable person to be named the resident primary parent. “
Cutler, meanwhile, requests joint custody.
Is Jay preventing Kristin from buying a house?
According to court documents obtained by People, Cavallari has been looking for a new home since November 2019, and Cutler has never had a problem with his search. In March, she “realized that the attempt at reconciliation was not working and knew that a divorce was inevitable. “
When she told Cutler that she had found a new home, Cutler refused to allow her to take money from their joint account to buy the house.
Cavallari says Cutler told him that “his lawyer was going to tell their manager not to release the funds.” She believes this is her husband’s way of “punishing her for not accepting his offer” regarding the settlement of their divorce.
Cavallari says she has the money to buy the house, but Cutler “tried to intimidate her” “by accepting her parenting plan”, by not allowing her to get the funds she needs to leave their house shared.
What went wrong in marriage?
It seems that things took place in the Cavallari / Cutler house for a while.
“He made her cry all the time during production. He spoke to her and belittled her, “said one of Cavallari’s friends to People. “She couldn’t take it anymore. “
Apparently, the reality star has been unhappy for at least three years.
“He demeans Kristin and makes her cry in front of other people,” the source continued. “He steals from the handle on the slightest thing and would make Kristin absolutely miserable. “