Ellie Goulding reflects on the strained relationships of her twenties

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Ellie Goulding reflected on the unhealthy relationships of her twenties and welcomed her marriage to Caspar Jopling.

Singer Starry Eyed, 33, who married the 28-year-old businessman in an idyllic ceremony in York last year, spoke in the May GLAMOR digital issue of her younger loves and the way it is about a locked out bride.

Having previously had high profile romances in her twenties – with stars such as Jeremy Irvine, Dougie Poytner and apparently Prince Harry – she admits at the time that she was “a jealous, chaotic and frantic person”.

Open and Honest: Ellie Goulding Reflected on Unhealthy Relationships in Her Twenties and Welcomed Her Marriage to Caspar Jopling

Open and Honest: Ellie Goulding Reflected on Unhealthy Relationships in Her Twenties and Welcomed Her Marriage to Caspar Jopling

Ellie’s love life through her twenties saw her date with Greg James in 2010, DJ Skrillex in 2012, Jeremy in 2013, Prince Harry in 2014 and Dougie from 2014 to 2016.

Talking about her younger relationships, Ellie said, “I wrote a song about jealousy the other night because I was a jealous, chaotic and frantic person in my twenties.

She admits that her rise to fame played a role in her instability, as she continued: “I didn’t know who I was. I went straight from college to tour, so I didn’t get a chance to settle into a routine and understand my habits and my personality …

“If you enter into a relationship as this person, then you will attract the same person who does not suit you …

Incredible: singer Starry Eyed, 33, who married 28-year-old businessman in an idyllic ceremony in York last year (photo), spoke in the May GLAMOR digital issue of her younger loves and the way it is a locked out bride

Amazing: 33-year-old singer Starry Eyed, who married the 28-year-old businessman in an idyllic ceremony in York last year (photo), spoke in the May GLAMOR digital issue of her younger loves and the way it is a locked out bride

A long time ago: she went out with Dougie Poynter from 2014 to 2016 (photo from 2015)

A long time ago: she went out with Dougie Poynter from 2014 to 2016 (photo from 2015)

Royal romance? She is said to have dated Prince Harry in 2014 (photo in 2014)

Royal romance? She is said to have dated Prince Harry in 2014 (photo in 2014)

“So for whatever reason, you continue to have this relationship because you feel safe and you feel like I would rather be in this crazy relationship than be single.”

Ellie also admitted that not being close to her parents Arthur and Tracey was a factor: “I think that because of my childhood and that I am not really close to one of my parents, that m gave an additional desire for comfort and security. “

Ellie has now found her happy with Caspar, with whom she confirmed her engagement on August 7, 2018, before getting married in an idyllic and starry ceremony at York Minster on August 31, 2019.

Caspar is the grandson of former Conservative MP Michael Jopling, who was Minister of Agriculture, Fisheries and Food from 1983 to 1987.

Read the full story in the May issue of GLAMOR UK

Read the full story in the May issue of GLAMOR UK

Her love: Ellie has now found her happy forever with Caspar, with whom she confirmed her engagement on August 7, 2018, before getting married in an idyllic and starry ceremony at York Minster on August 31, 2019 (photo in 2018 at Princess Eugenie's wedding)

Her love: Ellie has now found her happy forever with Caspar, with whom she confirmed her engagement on August 7, 2018, before getting married in an idyllic and starry ceremony at York Minster on August 31, 2019 (photo in 2018 at Princess Eugenie’s wedding)

Since the lockout began, Ellie has admitted that the couple have attacked their marriage “in a mature fashion” – in striking contrast to their younger relationships.

She revealed: “When I think of my marriage, this is a perfect example because he is so mature, we argue and we never argue …

“If we have differences, we talk about them, we don’t just say,” Well, I’m right and you are wrong and we will simply accept to differ. We are talking about the reasons why we might disagree on something.

Pumping iron: well known for her love of fitness, Ellie also discussed her confidence in her body and her relationship with her body and her image

Iron pumping: well known for her love of fitness, Ellie also discussed her confidence in her body and her relationship with her body and her image

“It was great, I can honestly say that we did not come to blows, we did not burst out of the house or vice versa and I am grateful for that …

“It is probably not ideal right after your marriage to be suddenly completely forced together, but it is real proof that we can just coexist very peacefully and very happily. “

Well known for her love of fitness, Ellie also discussed her confidence in her body and her relationship with her body and her image.

Wow: She said, `` I always kept in shape and I was always really health conscious, but I had an unhealthy relationship with food. But I also had this destructive side, which was entirely consistent with being an artist and songwriter. ''

Wow: She said, “I always kept in shape and I was always really health conscious, but I had an unhealthy relationship with food. But I also had this destructive side, which was entirely consistent with being an artist and songwriter. ‘

She said, “I have always kept in shape and have always been very health conscious, but I had an unhealthy relationship with food. But I also had this destructive side, which was entirely consistent with being an artist and songwriter …

“Then the other half of me was so desperate for control and routine. It affected my diet, it affected my relationship with food. Then I was also against eating meat and I was vegan, but I was not a good vegan …

“I think I have been on any type of diet. I have never been obsessed with being as skinny as possible, because I really think that strength is the most amazing thing for a woman.

Read the full story in the May issue of GLAMOR UK

Lockdown love: `` It's probably not ideal right after your marriage to be suddenly completely forced together, but it's real proof that we can just coexist very peacefully and very happily ''

Lockdown love: “It’s probably not ideal right after your marriage to be suddenly completely forced together, but it’s real proof that we can just coexist very peacefully and very happily”

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